Topic: So I think I have a porn and masturbation addiction.

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I dont see a problem with self exploration and satisfaction, in fact I think its important for learning more about ones sexual likes and dislikes and what have you... Granted males have less to learn about what works and what doesnt for them, im sure its a similar concept for them too. And its fun... Ive yet to meet anyone that hasnt enjoyed a good orgasm time and again. I guess I dont see why you feel its a problem to pleasure yourself lol

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Ivory_Wolf said:
I dont see a problem with self exploration and satisfaction, in fact I think its important for learning more about ones sexual likes and dislikes and what have you... Granted males have less to learn about what works and what doesnt for them, im sure its a similar concept for them too. And its fun... Ive yet to meet anyone that hasnt enjoyed a good orgasm time and again. I guess I dont see why you feel its a problem to pleasure yourself lol

It has been once explained that one good reason as to why one would feel badly about this, is because they are not yet mature enough to go through this type of activity.

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Well, if you're a hardline Christian then this guide is said to be handy. Personally, I'd recommend cutting back and taking it in moderation (possibly going cold turkey for a bit), or seeing a professional shrink (since internet accomplishments are typically exaggerated), but it's your call.

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UltravioletMoonRay said:
It has been once explained that one good reason as to why one would feel badly about this, is because they are not yet mature enough to go through this type of activity.

Good point! Plus we females tend to reach mental and physical sexual maturity faster than males. But to each their own, I know im content with my once every few days but sometimes urges arise and I see no reason to suppress them for fear of an addiction... As far as thats concerned I was hooked at 12 lol

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Thanks for the insight and links everyone.

I love to masturbate but my problem is I think I do it way too much. I am so excess with porn I am afraid I have gotten to the point where I won't find real life people attracted anymore because I'm so used to the perfect skin, big boob, big penis, big butt and perfect everything fictional porn characters have. I hope to break out of my awkward antisocial shell eventually and find a real sex partner one day...

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buttmuch said:
Thanks for the insight and links everyone.

I love to masturbate but my problem is I think I do it way too much. I am so excess with porn I am afraid I have gotten to the point where I won't find real life people attracted anymore because I'm so used to the perfect skin, big boob, big penis, big butt and perfect everything fictional porn characters have. I hope to break out of my awkward antisocial shell eventually and find a real sex partner one day...

I do feel like that too sometimes but when that average looking chick is running her hands down your back and you're undoing her bra and she shivers at your touch and makes a cute little noise I don't think you'll have any trouble getting in the mood.

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Puberty.
Nuff' said.

Seriously: you don't have to worry. Masturbating once a day even seems to be recommended, anything above it might eventually just be tiring your reproductive organ, if at all. To cause any long-term physical damage you'd probably have to do it 6+ times every day or so, if not even more......

As for the psychological component: Been through that, And I am certainly not the only one. One day, you'll suddenly stumble across a human that you find attractive again, no worries, porn IS intentionally perfected, after all. ^_^

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