Topic: To everyone alone on Christmas tonight

Posted under General

Hey everyone!
I just got done with the festivities with my family, But then got to thinking about all of you who don't have that opportunity. Chances are, Whatever the circumstances, you're alone on Christmas. If so, I am deeply sorry for you. No matter what you think, YOU ARE LOVED, PEOPLE CARE ABOUT YOU. Whether that be in-person, online, on a porn site, whatever. People Love You, & Don't you forget that! Besides, Your certainly not alone on this forum! Nevertheless, I hope you all have a very merry Christmas, Happy Hanukkah, Kwanzaa, Boxing Day, or whatever holiday you celebrate; & may the next one be better than this!

-FringleFrangle, Your Pal.

Edit:
Biz in black could effect your day so heads up. Dood!

I appreciate the message and the sentiment but
this may actually trigger some peeps who overthink
like me, Dood.
-‿-)

On my own this fine day and feeling A.O.K about it
to be honest. Being left alone has a calm tranquility
to it~!
╹‿╹)

Get to listen to some soothing music~!

Working on a doodle, Winter is here and all is well~!

But coming across this post could put ideas into a peep's
head. I'm sure you meant well but it'd make a peep wonder
if their-

"Really o.k or if they are telling themselves that."

and

"This guy feels sorry for someone who's alone today,
do I want to be left alone on the holidays? Should
I be feeling bad for being left alone or
Am I So Lonely That-!"

And so on and so on.

Mate, Loving the positivity but ya gotta watch
that Subtext, Dood
=‿=;)

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notkastar said:
I appreciate the message and the sentiment but
this may actually trigger some peeps who overthink
like me, Dood.
-‿-)

On my own this fine day and feeling A.O.K about it
to be honest. Being left alone has a calm tranquility
to it~!
╹‿╹)

Get to listen to some soothing music~!

Working on a doodle, Winter is here and all is well~!

But coming across this post could put ideas into a peep's
head. I'm sure you meant well but it'd make a peep wonder
if their-

"Really o.k or if they are telling themselves that."

and

"This guy feels sorry for someone who's alone today,
do I want to be left alone on the holidays? Should
I be feeling bad for being left alone or
Am I So Lonely That-!"

And so on and so on.

Mate, Loving the positivity but ya gotta watch
that Subtext, Dood
=‿=;)

Yeah I think getting triggered by a positive christmas message might be on you. You're projecting incredibly hard.

purelyforablacklist said:
Yeah I think getting triggered by a positive christmas message might be on you. You're projecting incredibly hard.

More than an overhead, -‿-)
and that's what I'm kinda worried about.

If I could get this impression, How would
someone who's not in the best place right
now feel about this?

Don't get me wrong, I Am DIGGING THE POSSITIVITY! ◠‿◠)
Peeps being awesome to one another is- Well- Awesome!
But this form of positive comes with a large chunk of subtext.
It's Positivity but it's a pick me up for a certain type of sadness,
The sadness of being alone which is a really tricky type to comfort,
Dood.

It's like medicine! For the right person at the right time, this post would be
super uplifting! Changing a peep's point of view for the better and brighter!
but for the wrong person, It could solidify feelings they're already having, actually
having the opposite effect making them feel even worse than they already do.
they may have been feeling fine but this post could stir up old feelings they'd
rather not feel today, ya know, Dood?

It's the drawback of uplifting comments like this out of the blue,
They affect everyone, not just the targeted audience, and the more
specialized the comment the more it could drum up new or old worries
in peeps who haven't considered, Dood

I am projecting but I may not be the only one that's going to,
Words are powerful and can affect someone's day positively or
negatively. Even if the words were positive themselves, Dood

Best to go generally uplifting with something along the lines of:

"From one peep to another, I wish you a merry Christmas and a wonderful new year!"

Cutting right to the chase with positivity so not only do the peeps
who feel alone today, feel the light but anyone nearby can appreciate
it too. Also, those who don't may comment down below and you'll
be able to talk to 'em on a one-on-one level so you can brighten their
day too, Dood!
╹‿╹)

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