honest to god question. does that shit make me gay or nah..
Topic: does liking femboys make me gay
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Nah! Just bi, if you also like girls.
lazyoldmutt said:
Nah! Just bi, if you also like girls.
i heard it doesnt cuz the feminine features. idk how that gay shit works tho ima keep it fr
That depends on what you mean by like, What kind of femboy, and if you willing to actually get physical with one. Do you mean you like them romantically or sexually? is it just femboy art or are you attracted to real femboys too? do you see yourself engaging sexually with a feminine guy? If you answer yes to 1 and 3 and your attraction goes past art then I'd say that's gay. Otherwise I'd say your attracted to the aesthetic and not actual men.
i heard it doesnt cuz the feminine features. idk how that gay shit works tho ima keep it fr
a feminine man is still a man. doesn't make them less of a man
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if they're indistinguishable from a woman, probably not. either way, people are way too concerned with wether something is "gay" or not
Embrace being bi dude.
I'd say it depends.
It's not gay to be attracted to the feminine aspect. But if you are still into them knowing they're men, then ya.
Or at least in a vacuum. I don't count fictional porn towards a person's actual sexuality for a variety of reasons.
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depends, what do you identify as? if you're a guy, then yes. if you're a gal, then yes. if you're nb, also yes.
haha queer
meaterbeater431 said:
honest to god question. does that shit make me gay or nah..
It sounds like you are a man that likes men if they look cute and are wearing cute outfits. If calling yourself gay helps communicate that, then call yourself gay. If calling yourself gay is more likely to confuse, then don't. The label should serve you, and if it doesn't, you shouldn't work to fit yourself inside it, or work to keep yourself outside of it.
Personally I have similar preferences and call myself bi.
notknow said:
Embrace being bi dude.
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Only you can tell whether or not you're gay. Don't let a bunch of strangers on the internet decide for you. Anyway, imo liking femboy furries does not mean you're gay. Liking real life men does.
Yes
Unironically depends on what, if anything, you mean by 'gay'.
yes
People will say no about this (and other things), and I usually feel that's some amount of bs, projection, or denial. If you see furry art that you think is intended for a gay audience and you also like it, then that is the first step. But furry art isn't a good representation of reality. In fact, I think IRL femboys may even try to imitate things they see in furry art as a goal. Real men got a different kind of ugliness and beauty to them that porn art won't show exactly.
At least look at real femboys and see if you have any attraction to them at all. If you feel something, then maybe there's something real there. Try r/femboys or r/boypussy. Reddit is kinda legit for these things. Or don't, leave things as they are, and just stick with furry porn. E621 is your oyster.
meaterbeater431 said:
i heard it doesnt cuz the feminine features. idk how that gay shit works tho ima keep it fr
No, man liking man = gay. ***Or bi I don't care. Femboys are just a lot more palatable for a lot of gay-curious men because femboys' masculinity is toned down. Liking muscles/hairy/dad-bod/fat is probably harder for guys initially interested in femboys. I believe femboys are all the rage now because the toxic masculinity horseshit from my generation and those previous is finally falling off. A lot of people are realizing that was dumb af.
You don't have to act on any of this IRL. I will say that finally giving in feels good. The sooner you stop fighting yourself and other's expectations of you, the sooner you can start truly enjoying these things. Just accept whatever you are, whatever that is.
abadbird said:
People will say no about this (and other things), and I usually feel that's some amount of bs, projection, or denial. If you see furry art that you think is intended for a gay audience and you also like it, then that is the first step. But furry art isn't a good representation of reality. In fact, I think IRL femboys may even try to imitate things they see in furry art as a goal. Real men got a different kind of ugliness and beauty to them that porn art won't show exactly.At least look at real femboys and see if you have any attraction to them at all. If you feel something, then maybe there's something real there. Try r/femboys or r/boypussy. Reddit is kinda legit for these things. Or don't, leave things as they are, and just stick with furry porn. E621 is your oyster.
No, man liking man = gay. ***Or bi I don't care. Femboys are just a lot more palatable for a lot of gay-curious men because femboys' masculinity is toned down. Liking muscles/hairy/dad-bod/fat is probably harder for guys initially interested in femboys. I believe femboys are all the rage now because the toxic masculinity horseshit from my generation and those previous is finally falling off. A lot of people are realizing that was dumb af.
You don't have to act on any of this IRL. I will say that finally giving in feels good. The sooner you stop fighting yourself and other's expectations of you, the sooner you can start truly enjoying these things. Just accept whatever you are, whatever that is.
shi this actually a good answer thanks
abadbird said:
I believe femboys are all the rage now because the toxic masculinity horseshit from my generation and those previous is finally falling off. A lot of people are realizing that was dumb af.
Are you saying that social factors are the reason that we are seeing higher differences in sexual orientations across age groups? Interesting when you consider the kinds of people who'd agree.
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meaterbeater431 said:
honest to god question. does that shit make me gay or nah..
A much more important question would be... are you a femboy?
Or a manly man who does manly things all day, like fixing motorcycles or chopping wood.
mantikor said:
A much more important question would be... are you a femboy?
Or a manly man who does manly things all day, like fixing motorcycles or chopping wood.
If you just like the aesthetic that's not gay, if you accidentally to a femboy without knowing he's male LOL but you're not necessarily gay, if you actively want to have sex with someone you know is a femboy that's kinda gay.
abadbird said:
People will say no about this (and other things), and I usually feel that's some amount of bs, projection, or denial. If you see furry art that you think is intended for a gay audience and you also like it, then that is the first step. But furry art isn't a good representation of reality. In fact, I think IRL femboys may even try to imitate things they see in furry art as a goal. Real men got a different kind of ugliness and beauty to them that porn art won't show exactly.At least look at real femboys and see if you have any attraction to them at all. If you feel something, then maybe there's something real there. Try r/femboys or r/boypussy. Reddit is kinda legit for these things. Or don't, leave things as they are, and just stick with furry porn. E621 is your oyster.
No, man liking man = gay. ***Or bi I don't care. Femboys are just a lot more palatable for a lot of gay-curious men because femboys' masculinity is toned down. Liking muscles/hairy/dad-bod/fat is probably harder for guys initially interested in femboys. I believe femboys are all the rage now because the toxic masculinity horseshit from my generation and those previous is finally falling off. A lot of people are realizing that was dumb af.
You don't have to act on any of this IRL. I will say that finally giving in feels good. The sooner you stop fighting yourself and other's expectations of you, the sooner you can start truly enjoying these things. Just accept whatever you are, whatever that is.
A have like a whole gallery of the RL guys that just a flat girls with dicks and balls basically, and they not on hormones or anything. Onlyfans are full of them.
I mean the topicstarter may just like girls with balls, and that's it. There is guys who likes femdom with strapon or fisting, and still are straight. Gays who like specifically trans-guys.
There is always can be tons of nuances.
people go around this topic like they're discussing rocket science and the world hangs in the balance of not "mislabeling" your interest group. just like what you like and dislike what you dislike
i don't have a phd or anything, but in my layman's opinion, "liking" dudes is gay
Femboys are still boys. But liking them doesn't make you "gay"
It makes you Bisexual. You just have a feminine lean, and that's okay. (A "lean" means you prefer a certain type of person)
Being bisexual doesn't mean you need to like ALL females and ALL males. You got your types in women, yeah? It's the same with being bisexual. You have types of men and women that you like.
You might just like feminine features, and don't care who has them. Sexuality is not a hard-coded thing, your preferences can change over time. You liking femboys can just be part of that, it's okay.
I heard this exact same thing on Reddit. They said that "liking femboys is not gay, as we're seeing the FEM part, instead of the BOY part". So, my question is, why are you not looking for FEMales? A similar thing is some men wanting a tomboy, they like girls that are more masculine. At the end of the day, it all comes down to who you're attracted to. If you WANT to go for men, chances are you're gay, or at least bi with more preference towards men.
It's only gay if balls touch, so you are in the clear ππ
I'd like to point out that sexuality labels are for you to easily describe yourself when communicating with others, not a box you have to perfectly fit into. If you're only attracted to women in real life, but you like femboys in furry porn, you may find straight is a more useful descriptor, since you're only interested in sex and relationships with women. Or maybe your attraction to fictional femboys is important to you and you feel bi is more accurate to your experience. Neither answer is right or wrong, it's really up to how you identify.
Now if you're not attracted to women at all, real or fictional, and you're only attracted to femboys? Well... yes you're probably gay lol. They are boys.
I have no idea why this question warrants paragraphs worth of debate... here's the really easy, objectively correct answer:
If you like women too, then no, you're bisexual with a preference for feminine presentation.
If you only find femboys attractive, then yes, obviously, that means you're gay.
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lekkiyo said:
Are you saying that social factors are the reason that we are seeing higher differences in sexual orientations across age groups? Interesting when you consider the kinds of people who'd agree.
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