So one frustrating thing that has become all to common is the concept of a fully swollen knot to be crammed inside of the partner, as opposed to the actual manner of having it swell up inside of them.
For those of us trying to find said swelling-up knotting, I propose the tag "true knotting". Would this be acceptable or will it just be deleted and "knotting" will be forcefully applied instead, making such images vanish into obscurity again?