Recently, I've had two uploads featuring a pair of disembodied hands, namely these:
Both pairs don't immediately seem to belong to someone clearly female or male, so I deemed an ambiguous gender tag to be appropriate.
However, for some reason people can't seem to leave the tag alone. The Klonoa pic started a small tag war, as you can see from the comments and history, and now someone took it off the other one that has only been there for about ten hours.
Nobody's been adding male or female tags that weren't already there, or straight or gay or even solo, there's just a general disagreement with these hands being enough for an ambiguous_gender tag. Which seems strange, because there's obviously someone else involved in both pictures (even if largely off-cam) and apparently, these people would rather just not specify what they are, even if that is very unclear. But then you're basically saying we might as well bin the tag entirely.
Not that it's always needed, I mean...
Nobody would care for a specification of the cat's questionable gender here. But in sexual situations, yes, then it's always preferred over nothing. Right?
So, what exactly is the rule of thumb here?
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