Topic: Not-quite-rape

Posted under Tag/Wiki Projects and Questions

Sometimes a guy wants to have sex and a girl wants to have sex, and they have sex and that's just sex.

Sometimes a guy wants to have sex and the girl does not and so he forces himself upon her with threats or violence, and that is rape.

In between, there are times when a guy wants to have sex and a girl does not, but she does it anyway for some reason.

Perhaps she has lost a bet, or can't pay the rent, or there is some minor blackmailing going on, or she has made some arrangement to exchange the use of her vagina to the use of this unsavory fellow for something he can do for her.

Therefore; she said yes, she's not fighting back, but she's not happy about it.

What would be the proper tag for this sort of thing? I know blackmail is its own tag, but it 1) does not cover the full range of this concept and 2) covers more than this concept.

We'd be flagging it on stories that explain this, or on images where one or more individuals in the act are clearly consenting but not enjoying it; an angry or annoyed expression.

If the person really, REALLY doesn't want it; expressions of horror, streaming tears; I think it should still be under rape because it's more aggressive or intense or some such and clearly the person feels threatened into doing this.

What I'm talking about is a girl sucking her ex-boyfriend's cock to get her CDs back, while giving him a smoky glare indicating she'd rather not be doing so.

**Edit: With this in mind, is there some kind of tag for pity sex? That's hot, too.

Updated by ikdind

I mean, if it's not consentual all the way through, then it's rape. The wiki entry on the tag is also pretty clear on this point:

Rape
Resistance doesn't have to be constant or overt; if the rapist continues to force the issue after the victim said "No" or "Stop", it counts as rape, even if the submitting partner changed their mind after the act began.

As for other tags:

Is there anything in the spectrum that's not already covered?

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SnowWolf

Former Staff

Furrin_Gok said:
We've got a “Do we have a tag for that” thread.

This might be a good one for a seperate conversation honestly.

Sparkmane said:
Sometimes a guy wants to have sex and a girl wants to have sex, and they have sex and that's just sex.

Sometimes a guy wants to have sex and the girl does not and so he forces himself upon her with threats or violence, and that is rape.

(or it can be the other way around, or two girls, two dudes etc!)

In between, there are times when a guy wants to have sex and a girl does not, but she does it anyway for some reason.

Perhaps she has lost a bet, or can't pay the rent, or there is some minor blackmailing going on, or she has made some arrangement to exchange the use of her vagina to the use of this unsavory fellow for something he can do for her.

Therefore; she said yes, she's not fighting back, but she's not happy about it.

What would be the proper tag for this sort of thing? I know blackmail is its own tag, but it 1) does not cover the full range of this concept and 2) covers more than this concept.

We'd be flagging it on stories that explain this, or on images where one or more individuals in the act are clearly consenting but not enjoying it; an angry or annoyed expression.

If the person really, REALLY doesn't want it; expressions of horror, streaming tears; I think it should still be under rape because it's more aggressive or intense or some such and clearly the person feels threatened into doing this.

What I'm talking about is a girl sucking her ex-boyfriend's cock to get her CDs back, while giving him a smoky glare indicating she'd rather not be doing so.

**Edit: With this in mind, is there some kind of tag for pity sex? That's hot, too.

Hmmm

we have angry_sex with about 250 posts. disinterested_sex with 82

Happy_sex is totally a thing.

Maybe "annoyed_sex"? or "disgruntled_sex"?

Updated by anonymous

SnowWolf said:
This might be a good one for a seperate conversation honestly.

I'm of the opinion that if it comes to that, you can make the thread later. Best to start off with the megathread and spread out when necessary.

CrocoGator said:
And for a non-monetary payment, such as a pokemon evolutionary stone or a Klondike bar, bribe might work.

If you're accepting a bribe for sex, it's prostitution, whether it's money or not.

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Furrin_Gok said:
I'm of the opinion that if it comes to that, you can make the thread later. Best to start off with the megathread and spread out when necessary.

I figured it was better to reply to this thread because I wanted to lead with the point that rape is rape.

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