Hello..
Firstly, please can you be sensetive and respectfull, this is my first time talking to anyone about this as I can't talk to my family or most of my friends about this..

So, rarely i get these urges to try something more than just masturbating which leads to anal play/fingering... but everytime after such I have a wierd reaction.. I always go antsy (shivering but not cold, quite alert..), I feel like my senses are more alert, my back feels lurched forward, i feel like i need the loo even if i sometimes don't and I feel "open inside". It is really uncomfortable for me and makes it so I can't sleep as I can be easily worried. Even after the day it can be a few days for the thought to dissapear and all in all it's just stressfull on me.

What I need is reassurance and also to know what I go through and is it normal.. I keep telling myself not to do it again and yet I still do and it happens everytime...

Like I said this is my first time talking to anyone and I appologize if this is the wrong place but I really could do with the help,

thanks

It could be a tumor.

Well...experimenting is normal, m'kay. Dem urges are also normal. If you keep "experimenting", you will get used to it and it might be hard to stop, m'kay. For the side effects, just think calm and relaxing thoughts. Try to block out whatever is causing the problem. Don't worry, I know that you're not the only one experiencing this.

Yahoo Answers sometimes have some friendly advice there for you.

Not sure if here is the correct place to really ask...

Well done for not going on Yahoo Answers.

Yahoo yields nothing but bullshit and the trolling answers that comes with those. As for this topic, this may just be your body just telling you that what you are doing isn't the best thing to be doing.

I guess this entire thing depends on your gender, but I'm probably very wrong here.

A) If you're male, sounds like you found your prostate. The prostate is a simple, golfball sized organ which works as the stop for your bladder and, if healthy, makes sure you won't pee all over yourself at all times.
Simply massaging it often yields this normal "I have to pee" feeling, as it is the one you feel when your bladder is full and it presses down on your prostate.
This feeling shouldn't linger more than a couple minutes.

B) Christ, relax, if you don't feel pain, just strange then there should be nothing wrong. If you feel pain, go to the doctor, that guy has to keep his mouth shut to everyone except you and can tell you more and better about this.

C) If you're female, nothing of this should happen, as those lack a couple nerves in the direct proximity of their asshole, specifically the prostrate is slightly differently located due to the vagina.
The only strange feeling you should get in this case is that you inserted something in your anus and the removed it after a while, that should go away rather soon, however.

If you feel weird after sticking your finger in your ass, then stop sticking your finger in your ass.

Digital_Kindness said:
If you feel weird after sticking your finger in your ass, then stop sticking your finger in your ass.

LOL Dude, that's fucking awesome. Thank you. Also, it sounds like you may be going too quickly. Take your time with it.

NotMeNotYouMobile said:
A) If you're male, sounds like you found your prostate. The prostate is a simple, golfball sized organ which works as the stop for your bladder and, if healthy, makes sure you won't pee all over yourself at all times.
Simply massaging it often yields this normal "I have to pee" feeling, as it is the one you feel when your bladder is full and it presses down on your prostate.
This feeling shouldn't linger more than a couple minutes.

B) Christ, relax, if you don't feel pain, just strange then there should be nothing wrong. If you feel pain, go to the doctor, that guy has to keep his mouth shut to everyone except you and can tell you more and better about this.

C) If you're female, nothing of this should happen, as those lack a couple nerves in the direct proximity of their asshole, specifically the prostrate is slightly differently located due to the vagina.
The only strange feeling you should get in this case is that you inserted something in your anus and the removed it after a while, that should go away rather soon, however.

Dude, firstly, that is not what a prostate does, and second, only men have prostates. Your prostate produces the majority of your semen and aids in ejaculation. Rubbing it would not cause the sensations he is describing. He is also not refering to a need to pee, but a need to defacate. That's pretty normal the first few times you insert stuff into your ass. However the majority of his problem is psychological. TL;DR: lrn 2 medical.

CameronB said:
Dude, firstly, that is not what a prostate does, and second, only men have prostates.

Hm, I thought bladder control was also part of it because the urine still runs through it. Old knowledge is old.

However: "In 2002, female paraurethral glands, or Skene's glands, were officially renamed the female prostate by the Federative International Committee on Anatomical Terminology." Wiki

So it seems we both aren't doctors specialized in medicine.

CameronB said:
He is also not refering to a need to pee, but a need to defacate

So that's what "i need the loo" is supposed to mean.

NotMeNotYou said:
Hm, I thought bladder control was also part of it because the urine still runs through it. Old knowledge is old.

However: "In 2002, female paraurethral glands, or Skene's glands, were officially renamed the female prostate by the Federative International Committee on Anatomical Terminology." Wiki

So it seems we both aren't doctors specialized in medicine.

So that's what "i need the loo" is supposed to mean.

Female prostates? What the fuck? What the hell is the world coming to? I suppose men must then have male uterus's. They don't do the same things or look anything like their female counterparts, but I assure you men have them!

And ok bout that second thing.