I have always used mature_male/female for posts with age difference, but recently I stumbled upon the older male/female tags, which have a significantly lower post count.
The wiki page for older_male suggests that it could be aliased to mature_male:
A tag used to refer to any 'mature' males in anthro art. Not necessarily old, but older than the average male in art
Or should they be implicated instead (e.g. older_male/female -> mature_male/female)?
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