coebalt said:
The purpose of my example of a hypothetical "Cute Comments" rules was not to compare the reasons for such rules existing, but to enforce exactly what you requested. A bit of Empathy. Many of the people I see posting in favor of this rule are actively promoting a toxic attitude towards the people who may be making these comments while ignorant of the rule. It is purely to foster a moment of introspection, not a true comparison of the premises as if they are similar in purpose.
you don't really see much toxicity twards individuals who make these comments, at least when it's a first offense. they get dinged with a neutral, which sits there for a few months, maybe a total of seven people even see that it's there, and then the record decays and can get removed.
most of the "toxicity" is for peeps who say stuff that make other users uncomfortable, get a neutral and then continue to say stuff that they know is against the rules and they know makes other users uncomfortable and/or for peeps who want to be able to say whatever they want to because "it's a porn site", despite the fact that a) no, it isn't and b) that shouldn't necessarily be a free pass anyway.