why does it seem the only men that really care of female anatomy are either creeps or foreign-misogynists (both known for being entirely "selfish" in the bedroom or helpless incels) that'll do nothing with their enthusiasm? seems like a great majority of men prefer the concept of the male form and want absolutely nothing to do with lady-parts.

i'm confused: do guys have to wear a blindfold during intercourse to keep the scary cooties at bay?