@Sharp_Coyote: That's surprisingly dismissive of a whole host of things coming from you. Some people's brains just aren't wired to make it feel great, the same way some people's brains aren't wired to supply adequate serotonin without help.

@CCoyote: granted

@NotMeNotYou:
yet it has been my experience that there are not many truly asexual people out there.

Perhaps needing a break, needing to unwind emotionally. Needing a good friend, first.

@NotMeNotYou:
I would not go so far as dismissive, yet certainly insensitive of me; a prickly subject lately, as I have not had a romantic relationship of much duration in a while, based on partner's only sexual ability, being availability.

@NotMeNotYou:
Of course some people's brains are not wired well to deal with intimacy, and some have difficulty or pain with the physical aspects of sex.
The question from Samael was a tad ... flippant ... and was answered thusly.

@NotMeNotYou:
Mine own sandpaper comes from people who claim to 'be done with sex', or dislike or even hate sex, as they have had unskilled, or neglectful, abusive, or selfish, et al poor partners in the past.

@NotMeNotYou:
With the oversexualization of online life, the media, television and film, with drama and emotional baggage, with stressful work and school environments, I can see how people have begun to think it, and even believe it,